Another thing I forgot to say... I live abroad as I work abroad, so I don’t get to visit a lot (only Easter, summer, Christmas and the odd weekends but I call every day without fail)
I was once told I should quit my job and move back to take care of her...
I know this is selfish but mentally I don’t think I can. I’m battling depression, awful anxiety (I’ve gotten to the point I have panic attacks in work) and I honestly think I’d end up doing harm to myself if I moved back into this environment permanently. Is that selfish?
She is still able to be independent right now and I have an older sister living about an hour away in the same county.
