Hey, glad it's resolved a fraction. I look after full time my mum with dementia.
Although it is hard to get a continence assessment these days, it might be worth reaching out to the community nurses.
Also, cutting down on fluids isn't necessarily the answer. Peeing more at night can be a symptom of other things physically. And I know it sounds common sense contrary but sometimes drinking more will make the urgency factor and small dribble bit become less. Fluid balance is massively important as dehydration can exacerbate confusion.
I got my mum into using the slips at night as she found them much more comfortable and I try and do a 4hrly toileting regime - as in, let's just go and try shall we? She seems to respond to that.
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