Sami Gayle was only a teenager when "Blue Bloods" first aired in 2010. She acted alongside some heavy hitters in the industry, not the least of which was Tom Selleck playing family patriarch Frank Reagan. Having another set of adults to interact with and guide her through acting and growing up in this strange world likely aided her immensely. She explained, "To have that second family of support as I navigate, not only the world of the entertainment business, but also becoming a young woman, going to college, they have been integral in my development as a person."
She values the "Blue Bloods" cast so much that it sounds like any potential romantic partner would have to earn their approval. She jokingly alluded to this later in the interview, "There's just a second round of screening. It's not just my family, which is hard enough, but there is a whole other family. No, I'm really just so lucky." Gayle may no longer be a prominent cast member of "Blue Bloods," leaving the show to pursue other projects and go to college. But she pops up every so often in guest roles, so hopefully, she hasn't had her last dinner with the Reagans just yet.